All of us have been on dates that were utter disasters right from the word go. It’s true that one has to kiss a lot of frogs before you find the prince. But I am sure none of us want to be categorized as those frogs. There are many free dating sites that tell you what to do on a date. Maybe you have been scanning the online free personals on these romance sites and become close to someone on the net.

When it comes to meeting that person you have chosen out of many dating personals, an anxiety takes over. Eromance guides you on how to avoid the ultimate relationship pitfalls. So what are the common dating mistakes that turn a high potential date into a veritable dead-end?

For men:

Bragging: Being pretentious or trying to be richer, cooler and smarter than you actually are is an instant put-off. Highlight your strengths but don’t put up a charade. Most women today are intelligent enough to see through.

Not being courteous enough: Be courteous and attentive to a lady. If you are looking for a buddy, the back slapping and belching routine is fine. But if your aim is to have a lady swoon over you; open doors, pull chairs, praise her looks and take the bill the first time. Show your gallant side.
Dirty nails, scruffy hair: Hands are big with women. Clean hands with trim nails are a must. Smell good and get a nice haircut that complements your features. Remember men don’t have make-up to hide their flaws.
Moving too fast: Let the lady decide how close she wants to get. Don’t scare her off by getting too ardent too fast.

For women:
Wearing something too loud or risqué: In you attempt to look glamorous and sexy, don’t go overboard. Too revealing clothes, sleazy make-up would definitely put off one looking for a serious relationship.

Being too explicit: Honesty is one thing but opening your entire history in front of a date is not worth it. Avoid too many details about your past relationships and why they didn’t work out. Chances are a potential partner may see a pattern there and choose to keep off.
Overly sentimental and homely: If you show yourself as someone very vulnerable and easily hurt, a guy may get cold feet before even trying. So be playful and fun. The ‘sentimental’ stuff can come later.

The love-me-the-way-I-am attitude: You may have a heart of gold but going totally without makeup in drab unkempt hair is also a no-no. A little lipstick and mascara wouldn’t do you any harm.

So keep these points in mind and put your best foot forward. Eromance helps you nip the trouble spots in the bud.

Issued By: Molly Rose

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